Sex has been the ultimate action of love for centuries, but have you mastered having sex? Are you having trouble with your sex life? Is your sex life boring and monotonous ? Are you having trouble making your partner/spouse have multiple orgasms? Are you having trouble satisfying your partner/spouse? Are you having problems getting aroused? Are you worrying about losing your partner/spouse due to your inability to satisfy? Worry no more! This article is just for you. It is a known fact that many men and women do have trouble performing. This has been a major problem for centuries, but I got a few tips that will help you satisfy any partner, if done correctly.
Sex is always easy at first, to an amateur, but to experts like me its an art you have to master. A good sex life takes time and effort to maintain. It won’t always be easy. You got to know what you are doing. Women are cyclic creatures. Their sex drives may vary depending on their hormones or what’s going on in their lives, so as a result, they may/may not be to hot/interested in having sex. I know for us guys we just love having sex and its fun to just have sex anywhere, but for women it’s not the same. Sometimes it takes longer for some to get hot/interested in wanting/having sex and doing the same old thing just isn’t enough. Lucky for you I got the answer. if you want to really start getting women interested in having sex with you again, satisfying them, and spicing up your sex life, it will be wise to follow my tips. Here’s a few tips that will improve your sex life.
Before having sex, it is wise to start with an all over sensual massage. It is a known fact that our bodies are always tense in some areas, and sensual massages help release any muscular tension your partner/spouse may be experiencing. Also sensual massages are one of the most relaxing and sexiest things you can do for your partner/spouse. It really puts your partner/spouse in the mood. Play with the nipples and the clitoris a bit while you massage, this is guaranteed to get her sexually aroused.
Listen To Your Partner/Spouse
After a while you may think you know how to please your partner in every way, but this is very rarely true. There is always something you haven’t tried/one of you have not done correctly. This could hinder your sex life dramatically. To avoid this have frequent sex lessons with your partner/spouse in which you don’t think you know it all, but instead listen to your partner/spouse. Listen to your partner/spouse talk about things you never tried talking about before, but would like to. No harm can come from that. It’s prudent to listen because we often find ourselves believing we know what our partner/spouse like. We often conceive it so much it becomes the way it’s done. We must discard this myth, and open our minds to new possibilities. The possibility that you don’t always know what your partner/spouse likes and you need to have sex to learn. This will benefit you greatly in the future.
Role playing during sexual intercourse is a great way to spice up your sex life and keep things interesting. Pretending to be something you are not may be taboo at first and you may not get used to it as easily as others, but you will get used to it. For you see, it has its benefits when done right. Traipsing out of the role of being “yourself” can be a fun way of giving each other permission to behave differently for better sex. Playing the role of someone else during sex is a great way of giving your partner/spouse new sensations and trying things you have never tried before. It is usually the woman who dresses up, but both men and women can do it if you have the right resources. Role playing is a great way to have better sex and fun with your partner in a sexy way.
Before having sex try talking about your deepest fantasies. Why you may be wondering? Simply because talking about your fantasies is an excellent way of increasing communication with your spouse and helps you get to know each other better. This will result in lots of better sex. I would know. At first talking about your deepest fantasies may not be the easiest thing, so this is best done with a glass of wine. This will help make communicating a bit easier. Keep it light at first, and don’t bombard her with to many fantasies. Do not under any circumstance fantasize about people you know/ reveal fetishes you not sure about! Take fantasy telling in turns. You may be surprised what comes out of their mouth when there’s a little wine in their system. It really does help!
Dirty talk has turned people on for centuries. It is one of the best ways of turning someone on. It may be surprising to you but, it’s true! Dirty talk has something other sex play doesn’t. That is words. The power of the spoken word is amazing. Because our brains are our largest sexual apparatus, we respond to the spoken word automatically. Even more so when your name is whispered in your ear. The spoken word arouses emotions and sensations in various regions. This is why its a good way of spicing up your sex life. For you see women are extremely receptive to what goes on in their ear, and as a result get aroused quickly when you talk dirty in their ear. However talking dirty is an art and when done badly results in oodles of giggles. Don’t let that deter you though. Keep at it till you master the art! It will benefit you in the future.
“Sex is the ultimate action of love. Sex is an art. Master the art!” – Yannick Theodore