Want a new girlfriend? Having trouble getting one? Don’t know how to get a new girlfriend. Tried everything, but still does not work. Worried that you will never get a girlfriend? Worry no more! I have just the solution. Simply follow my tips below, and you will have a girlfriend in no time.
Getting a girlfriend is not an easy task, believe me. It takes years of practice. For you see a girlfriend is more than just a friend. A girlfriend is someone you can count on, a girlfriend is someone who is there for you when ever you need them, a girlfriend is someone you can confide in, a girlfriend is someone you can trust, a girlfriend is someone you can always hang out with, when you have no-one else to hang out with. Having a girlfriend is a big deal, and should be treated as such. A girlfriend is not someone you can just mistreat and beat when ever you want or just have sex with. You must love and respect your girlfriend. Before you can get a girlfriend you must remember the following; Love, Respect, and cherish. That is why you need years of practice. If you want to get a girlfriend, you must first know how to meet girls. Meeting girls is not that hard. In order for you to meet girls you must:
Approach Many Girls On A Daily Basis
If you see a girl whom you find attractive go and talk to her. It doesn’t matter what time it is or if she is with her friends or not, just do it. You will be surprised she may just indulge you and show some interest, you might even get her number. Do this on a regular basis. Go out everyday and speak to as many girls as you can. Not all may indulge you and show interest, but some will. Who knows she might even let you take her out on a date.
Avoid Being Afraid To Fail
It is important that you avoid being afraid to fail. Being afraid to fail only prevents you from succeeding. Always try to remember that. If you see a girl you like, go speak to her, 99% of the time she will indulge you. Conquer your fear, and just do it. If she turns you down, who cares!, another one will not trust me. There are plenty of other girls out there.
Always be yourself, don’t try to be someone else. Let the girl know who you truly are, and what you’re really like before making her your girlfriend. This is very important.
Hang Out More
The more people you meet the better! Try to go out and meet new people daily. The more people you meet the more people you’ll have to choose from. The more people you have to choose from the greater your chances of getting a girlfriend. If you don’t know how to start meeting people, try signing up for activities, try doing new things, going new places. This is a sure way of meeting new people.
After you have met the girl you like you need to start dating. Then you then need to make her your girlfriend. In order for you to start dating you must do the following:
Girls are more gentle than you think. In order for you to make her your girlfriend you need to be kind. I know you may be thinking, girls gentle, no way, but it’s true, girls are gentle and need to be treated kindly. If not she will not want to be your girlfriend. Ask her how was her day?, how is she doing today? stuff like that. Be curious, and respectful. Take her out often. Open doors for her. Stuff like that. Girls like that sort of thing
Assertiveness is a very attractive quality to have. Girls are more attracted to an assertive man than a man that is not. Remember that. Most women like men to take the initiative and ask them out. When calling her to go on a date, don’t ask her what she wants to do, she might think you’re lazy, but instead give her the options you think the two of y’all should do. Don’t be afraid to do so. Girls love an assertive man. Don’t go being all demanding, but a little assertiveness is not a problem.
It is very important that you avoid falling into the friend zone. To avoid this you should always be very flirtatious. This reminds them that you are a potential partner and not just another good friend. Also you should try breaking the touch barrier. Try touching their arm while talking, or holding hands while walking, try being playful without being creepy. Touching someone communicates to them that you find them attractive.
Make Her Laugh
Girls love people who have a good sense of humour. The key to having a good sense of humour is to be lighthearted. Try to constantly tell jokes and give interesting stories. Remember as long as you’re not making fun of people in a mean spirited way, it’s not a problem. Don’t worry about whether or not she thinks you’re funny because you know what? If she can’t laugh with you, then this isn’t a girl you want to spend a lot of time with anyway.
Ask Her On A Date
Once you have met the girl that you feel you truly connect with, you need to get her to like you. This is never an easy task. Girls are very sensitive, and need to be handled with care. If you have done the above correctly she is already interested. Trust me. Now you just need to seal the deal. Invite her out on a date, or for a cup of coffee, which ever one you prefer. Offer to pick her up or walk her there or take bus together which ever one you prefer. This is very polite, and will give y’all more time to talk during the course of the night. Don’t ask her in a text. Give her a call or ask her in person. This shows her that you’re not just looking for a quick hook up. Also don’t forget to offer to pay. This shows her you have manners. It is advised that you go on two or three dates, before making her your girlfriend.
Ask Her To Be Your Girlfriend
After you have dated the girl a few times, and you are sure that she is the one you want to be with, then you need to ask her to be your girlfriend. You can do this in a big creative way or in person, you decide, but you must never ask her in a text. That is very disrespectful. You must only ask her to be your girlfriend when you are certain she will not turn you down. If you are not certain, don’t do it. Save yourself the embarrassment.
“Getting a girlfriend is not an easy task, but it can be done” – Yannick Theodore